If you are swiping on Dating apps, this book is for you!
If you are struggling to find love, this book is for you!
If you are feeling lonely around loved ones, this book is for you!
This isn’t just another book about Dating—it’s a wake-up call for a generation drowning in options but starving for meaningful human bonds.
In an age where dating apps gamify love, social media reduces self-worth to likes, and art sells us dramatic illusions of romance, finding genuine friendship or lasting love feels harder than ever. We swipe, scroll, and filter our way through people—only to end up lonelier, more confused, and less connected than before.
This book rips the mask off modern relationships, revealing how technology, social movements, and media have rewired how we choose, value, and connect with others. You’ll discover why “impression” has replaced “expression” in love, how dating apps manipulate desire, and why real connection can’t be found in a dopamine-fuelled feed.
Through raw insights, cultural analysis, and the author’s experience and observation from building Bumpedin - The Socialising App—a platform designed to slow down and deepen human connection—Before You Swipe Right gives you the tools to cut through the noise, unlearn toxic patterns, and rediscover what truly matters in friendship, love, and life.
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ARAVINTH PRABU RAJENDARAN
Aravinth Prabu is the founder of Bumpedin, a conscious socialising app based in India that challenges the superficial swiping culture of modern dating platforms. From his unique vantage point running a community designed to foster genuine human connection, Aravinth has spent years observing the subtle yet profound ways technology, dating apps, and even art have reshaped how we approach love, friendship, and relationships.
In Before You Swipe Right, he distills these observations into a candid, insightful exploration of why expression—being your true, unfiltered self—is far more powerful than impression when it comes to creating healthy, lasting bonds. Blending cultural analysis with practical advice, Aravinth invites readers to slow down, rethink their approach to connection, and rediscover the timeless qualities that make human relationships deeply fulfilling.
When he’s not building communities or writing about the intersection of technology and relationships, Aravinth is driven by a passion for understanding human behaviour, emotional well-being, and the ideas and beliefs that bring people together.
