I have two friends one is my casual friend and the other Is my best friend.
One day I felt very sad and depressed so I decided to share my pain and feelings with my friend's.

Friends : Hey Hi !

Me : Hi guys i want to share something with you.

Friend's : Sure what's the matter ?

Me : I am going through a difficult phase.

Friend's : what happened ? Is everything okay ?

Me : Hmm I don't know why my life became such a mess, I never hurted any one very badly till now. I gave importance, huge respect and value to the people around me.
But they never understand and understood my feelings and finally make me feel like a dumb. Why me always. Not only this I have so many issues to deal with.

Casual Friend : My suggestion is just treat the people the same way they treat you. Then they will understand your value and your pain. When you get hurt you should not sit like that do things which makes you happy even though it's unfair.

Best Friend : See If you treat the way how people treat you then what is the difference between you and them.
And you think if you treat them like that they feel sad and regret about you. And if you do unfair things it gives you temporary happiness but not peace.

Me : Yes I think so, Why not ?

Best Friend: No my friend not at all
because every one is not as like as you my friend. Every one is different some over think and other will not they don't take everything to their heart.

Casual Friend: What are you talking if you want to survive in this society you have to be rude as like others.Then you will be happy.

Me : Confused.

Both my friends are arguing each other about this topic.

Best Friend: See I am your best friend I know you listen to me. I hope you will be happy and every thing will be alright soon. Don't worry dude.

Casual Friend: See If you listen to your best friend you will regret and you become worthless those words are useless.

Best Friend: Can I say you one thing.

Me : Yes please.

Best Friend: Some people are good and some people are not. If some one is not giving you value, importance, and etc.
It will not reflect or change your life. Your life is filled with your intentions not others.

Don't chase for those feelings because one day they dominate you and it will make you weak. You are good enough one day they recognise you till then be strong and move forward. Keep smiling dude one day life will get tired of upsetting you. As you said you have others things to deal with it's common every one goes through it some people will share and some people struggle inside and other think practically and move forward by facing all these bravely.

Casual Friend: What are you talking hey don't listen to those words be like a person who is "Rude and Bold."

Me : I was struck between my friend's words and thinking who is correct and who is wrong.

Mean while my friends are fighting about me. They are trying to influence me.

Casual friend : I don't accept Your words Mr. Best Friend.

Best Friend : So what ? I know my friend will listen to me and take wise decisions in her life.

Me : Suddenly my alarm was ringing I opened my eyes and saw my face in mirror. Realised it was a dream all those words are going through in my inner self.

Every one has their own set of journey and it's different for each other. Some people struggle financially other struggle with health issues like that every one has their own different aspects.

At last while having struggles how we are behaving with others and how we are strong enough to deal with is important. We should not get influenced by negative thoughts and demotivated by them.

No one comes to support and understand every thing about us. We have to accept that fact first.
You are your ultimate saviour, strength, motivator. If you fall you should have ability to rise as well that's the real spirit.

Our decisions plays a vital role in our life. One mistake or one good thought has power to change the life. If you think positively your life will become successful.
So keep smiling be brave and ready to accept happiness, sad or anything in life. Most of the people are living for the society not for themselves. Be yourself and keep your limits.

"Real is rare fake is every where".

Finally my friends who gave me this enlightenment are :

My Mind ( casual friend )
My heart ( best friend ).


Thanks for reading.